I’m sad to share that last Wednesday, we found the baby no longer had a heartbeat. I delivered our teeny tiny daughter, Clare at almost 22 weeks on Friday.
We are heartbroken and grieving. Life makes no sense right now.
You would have been in the best family, Clare. You had the very best big brother there ever was. We’re so sad you won’t get to join us. I wish we didn’t have to say goodbye and hello on the same day. I wish I was still pregnant and you were still growing inside of me.
The baby was a girl. A daughter. I’ll never get to see my only daughter grow up.
If our love could have saved you, you would have lived forever.
Clare Marie Cadaret
April 29, 2016
Your baby will always be missed and remembered. Love to all of you, especially your Clare.
Oh Ashley, I am so sorry for such a tremendous loss. Hugs and prayers for your whole family.
xox
I am so sorry. Praying for your whole family.
Oh, Ashley, I am so sad for you & your family, for baby Clare & the life she didn’t get to have with your wonderful family – such loving parents & kind big brothers. I’m sending so much love your way right now.
I’m so incredibly sorry for what you’ve been enduring and grieving. Please remember you have an entire army of love and support coming to you and your family now and always.
My sweet friend. There are truly no words. Just tears. My heart aches for and with you. What beautiful little hands and feet. How I wish there was anything in the world I could do to stop the hurt for you. Sending love and prayers for peace beyond understanding. I love the name you chose.
I’m so sorry. That’s such a hard thing to go through. *hugs hugs* and all the good thoughts I have for you and your family as you heal.
I am in tears reading this. I am just so, so sorry. Clare has such a wonderful family and is so, so loved. I am so mad and sad that you all got deprived of a life together with her. So much love to you and your family. We will remember Clare.
Oh, Ashley. All my heart and warmth to you and your family. This makes no goddamn sense, and it never will.
I’m so, so sorry for the loss of baby Clare. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I’m so sorry for your incredible loss, Ashley. There aren’t enough words in the world to do it justice. Just know that I’m thinking of you, Mike, Gabe and Theo and wishing I could do more.
Clare will always be loved and remembered. Beautiful name for a precious baby girl. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I’m so, so sorry for your loss, Ashley. This is so heartbreaking and unfair.
Sweet Ashley. Just looking at your sweet baby’s handprints and footprints, I cry at the utter perfection of her. Her name is beautiful. I am so sorry.
My heart is breaking for you and your sweet family. Life is awfully unfair and I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Sending hugs and prayers to you.
<3
I am so sorry. Your sweet Clare will always be remembered. Thinking of you and your family.
I’m so sorry, Ashley. My thoughts are with you, Mike, Gabe, Theo, and your sweet daughter Clare as you navigate this terrible heartbreak.
I hurt so bad for you right now. I am so, so sorry you are all going through this and experiencing this loss. My heart goes out to you and the family.
I’m very sorry, Ashley. Praying for comfort, for you and your family.
Oh, Ashley. This post and news absolutely breaks my heart. Thinking of you and your family and sending so many prayers your way as y’all grieve the loss of your sweet baby girl.
I’m so sorry, Ashley. This shouldn’t happen. I’m praying for all five of you, including sweet Clare.
I’m absolutely heartbroken for you, Ash :( I wish there was something I could do or say to take away the pain, it’s just not fair. Clare’s tiny prints are so perfect & precious…I can only fathom how broken you must feel and I am so so sorry for that sweet friend. Praying for peace for all 4 of you but esp for your mama heart <3
I’m so sorry. What a painful loss.
How cruel that she was taken from you so far into your pregnancy, how cruel you had to give birth to her to say hello and goodbye on the same day, so cruel she doesn’t get to grow up as part of your beautiful, loving family. I am so heartbroken for you and Mike and Gabe and Theo and all the rest of your family and friends who are grieving with you. Lots of love. <3
I’m so sorry for your loss, Ashley. I can’t even imagine your pain. I’ll be praying for you and your family.
My heart aches for you. I am so sorry.
I am so, so sorry.
I’m so very sorry Ashley. You and your family are in my thoughts. I know Clare is loved and dearly missed.
Praying for you!
Oh Ashley! My heart is breaking for you and your family. I am so sorry that you lost Clare. Sending thoughts of peace and comfort and healing for your hearts. She will be with you forever.
I am oh so sorry, Ashley. I am so heartbroken for your family. Love to you all… XO
My heart is aching for you and your family. I am so sorry this is happening to you. May you find comfort and peace knowing that Clare will always be a part of your family.
Ashley, I’m so sorry for the loss of your sweet Clare. It’s so unfair. I wish it could be different. Praying for you and your family.
Clare is very loved by all of us, and so are you and your whole family. I am so, so sorry Ashley.
I am just so very sorry. Holding you and Clare in the light.
There’s no words. I’m so sorry about your sweet Clare. Wishing you and your boys peace in the coming days and months.
My condolences. I am so sorry.
I’m so sorry. I’ve been thinking of you and your family.
So many prayers to your sweet girl and your family. Love from ours to yours. x
My heart is breaking for you and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I’m so sorry.
Ashley, wow. My heart is so heavy reading this. I’m so so SO sorry you lost Clare this way.
Sending you love and holding heaviness on behalf of you and your sweet family. And wishing you courage to face the next moment and the next and the next…I can’t imagine how hard that must be. I pray you can be kind to yourselves. It’s all anyone can do. ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss. What a lovely name for a lovely baby.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry for the loss of beautiful Clare. You and your family are in my thoughts.
You, Clare, Mike, Gabe, & Theo are in my thoughts.
Your daughter will be remembered, always.
All of us, far and near, love you & your family so much. xo
I am sorry for the loss of your beautiful Clare.
Thank you for sharing her amazing hand- and footprints with us.
Much love to all of you…
No!!! I am so very, very sorry. So unfair. My heart is broken for you. xo
Ashley, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love and support to you and your beautiful family.
I’m so very sorry. :( Thinking of you & your family.
Long time reader and IG follower, first time commenter. So incredibly sorry for your unspeakable loss. I’ll be thinking of you and your family. I hope you find some small comfort in the uncreative but sincere words of a stranger. <3
There are no words I can say to comfort you but I want you to know how very very sorry I am for you and your family. My heart goes out to you and like so many people I wish there was something I could do to help you. Sending all my love and hugs to you all. xxxx
Oh sweet Clare. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.
I am so very sorry for your loss… there are simply no words.
What a beautiful name for such a beloved baby. xo.
I’m so deeply sorry for you all. Your beautiful girl would have been a wonderful addition to your family and I’m so sad for you all that it’s not to be.
I am truly So sorry for your loss. :(
I’m so very sorry, Ashley. I can’t imagine the grief you must have right now. You were a wonderful mother to your daughter for every moment she was a part of this world. You kept her warm and surrounded her with love. She will always be remembered, by people who never even got the chance to meet her–but most of all, by her family. Her mom, her dad, and her two older brothers. I pray that you will move through this season of grief with the comfort that you need each day brought in little ways that let you know she sees you, she knows you, and one day you will both be reunited to build your relationship in all the ways you wish you could now.
I’m so very sorry for your loss Ashley. You will always be her mother and she will always be your daughter. Sending love to you.
What a beautiful name, and what a beautiful tribute to a baby who was so very loved by so many. xoxo
Sending all of the love. ALL OF IT. xoxoxo
Sending big, big hugs your way. I’m so sorry your family has to go through this pain.
So sorry for your loss :( I will just be sad here with you, praying for your family.